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Don't take it personal. :3

Also, please don't ask me to friend you if you have no intention of friending me.  Its quite pointless because ALL of my journal entries are friends only and or filtered so you won't see anything..! And just to save any embarrassment please, please comment here before adding me unless I know you for sure.

Thanks~!

I was bored.  ^_^;;

Things you may not know about me:

I was born in Charlotte.  Don't think I'd ever want to go back.  Too many memories there that I want to forget and I don't really like city people... at least people from Charlotte.  XD

I'm so glad my mom made the choice to move to Concord, though.  I think my life would've been so fucked up if I stayed there.

I don't see myself as harsh and strict but I know others might see me that way. 

I'm actually deathly shy around most people (and I hate that with a passion)... but as long as you don't look at me like I'm crazy when I tell a joke or act distant or shy around me I'll warm up to you.

Adding to that, if you think I don't like you I most likely do.

I love being around people and going out doing random things.  The most memorable hang outs for me have been times when someone calls/messages me and is like 'lets hang out' and we end up spending the day just wondering around and doing whatever.

I don't like being alone most of the time.  Expecially when I know I could probly be with someone I like being around.  That being said I hate being single or at least not having someone to cuddle with willingly.  *lol*

I actually have three brothers.  The oldest Chavanta (or Vanta), the middle kid which most of you know Alonzo and a much younger half brother named Jerry

I pretty much hate when people think they are giving me a compliment by saying I'm the whitest black girl they know.  Its annoying and I don't see how thats a compliment.  I'm just a black girl who isn't dumb and close-minded.

The only time I'll let someone use me is if they are using my crafting skills some how.  Now if your using me for something else you can kiss my ass. ^_^ 

That being said:  Want me to make you something or embellish something you already have?  Just ask.

I'm way too loyal for my own good.  Like a ninja cat.

I hate pirates. But I don't hate most people that like them.. its just a bad choice that they made in life. <3

I love cute and/or deadly things.  Like Gloomy bear, for instance.

I'm a fabric whore and I've tried to go on for a month with out buying some but that didn't work out. ^^;;

I actually do think I might wear too many rainbows sometimes.  Expecially to the mall, strangly enough.  Hmm.  XD

I amaze myself with how talented I am.  And I don't mean that in a egotisic way - promise!!

If I like someone I don't talk to them.  Like, I'll avoid them without noticing or if I already know them I don't mention it at all or act like I do.  That might be one of the reasons why I'm still single.  XD

I'm a self-proclamed slut but call me that or a whore and I'll knock the shit out of you.

I really know everything and if your doing something behind my back I'll either find out or I just know.  XD

The later it gets, the dirtier my mouth gets - ask anyone who's hung out with me late at night or I've talked to on the phone for long periods of time *lol*

I'm a skank.  I know it.  Gosh.  I wear short-shorts with beaters all the flippin time, how could I not know?

But I'm a cute and highly attractive one, you'd have to agree. ^_~

My style is out there.  I love decora, vk looks, classic lolita, 50's pinup looks, and brands like ETC.

I hate jeans but I can never find any shoes to go with what I'd like to wear so I get stuck wearing them all the time. XP

Some things I don't do already but always really wanted to get into are burlesque dancing, soccer, volleyball and roller derby.

My favorite swear words to use are 'fuck' and 'cunt' and you can sometimes hear me say 'you fucking cunt' 'cause it just sounds just so dirty and badass. XD  Don't ask me why that is, though

I have 3 online journals including this one... but one I don't update anymore and the other is on myspace and is pretty edited unless your in my preferred list.

Now for a small update for my life:  It still sucks.  XD  I'm still single, still failing, still don't have a life, and I've filled that void by sewing and embroidering all day. XP

But I'll live.

I'm pretty sure I'll be going to Animazement although I'll be going alone. T_T  But I think of all the people I could meet, the j-rock related stuff and yuri manga and hentai I can buy in the dealer's room and I get over that for a moment or two. ^___^.  I think I might be hanging out with Sarah while I'm there, anyway!!  Yay!

I'll also be going to AWA this year too... I'm already planning my gown for the ball. ^^

[x-posted on myspace]